Five Effective Ways to Get Your Lover Back
Are you still in love with the person you just broke with up? Do
you want to be reconciled with this person? Do you ponder thoughts on
how to get your lover back? Then get ready to be reunited with your
beloved through these effective ways:
Express the intentions of winning your love back.
Let your loved one know that you actually want him back. The other party may not accept your invitation right away, but at least he gets the idea. This lets you have the opportunity to maintain close contact with each other.
Change for the better.
Both parties contribute to the success or failure of a relationship. Blaming each other will not help. Rather, to get your lover back, acknowledge your shortcomings. Genuinely understand where you went wrong. Let your partner see that you have changed for the better. Forgive, forget, and move on.
Constantly show reminders of why your partner fell in love with you.
Be it physical attributes, habits, skills or talents, behavior, character or personality, let an ex see that part of you he loves. It will surely get your lover back. Your ex will think twice once he sees what he'll be missing when you separate ways for good. If you have seen Meg Ryan's movie Serious Moonlight, you'll see practical tips about this. The female lead character's efforts to remind her husband of why they fell in love with each other years ago made him drop the divorce papers, leave his mistress, and happily adopt a child to make up for not being able to produce one.
Avoid pathetic offers.
Don't beg to get your lover back. Communication is encouraged, but not to the extent of even stalking the person and making unnecessary scenes in public places. Offering to give everything to an ex to be together again may not be a good compromising idea.
Put yourself together.
Life goes on despite a break up. Some women resort to extreme measures such as a suicide attempt. This may come across as overly romantic for some people, but you have to take note that this is no longer love but an obsession. Love is a two-way process. Obsession, on the other hand, finds a dominant side of yourself and forces another person towards you by all means possible. True, this gets the guy's attention at first - but out of pity and a sense of responsibility. In the end, you may lose your confidence and self-respect. Your relationship, in turn, will be built with lies.
A more beneficial look at this situation is to not let the other party think that your world has fallen apart. Even if you want to get your lover back, it doesn't mean you are hopeless without him. Nobody wants to be with someone who is unable to stand up against life's challenges, like when a good relationship ends. On the other hand, we all look up to those who can rise up amidst issues.
Express the intentions of winning your love back.
Let your loved one know that you actually want him back. The other party may not accept your invitation right away, but at least he gets the idea. This lets you have the opportunity to maintain close contact with each other.
Change for the better.
Both parties contribute to the success or failure of a relationship. Blaming each other will not help. Rather, to get your lover back, acknowledge your shortcomings. Genuinely understand where you went wrong. Let your partner see that you have changed for the better. Forgive, forget, and move on.
Constantly show reminders of why your partner fell in love with you.
Be it physical attributes, habits, skills or talents, behavior, character or personality, let an ex see that part of you he loves. It will surely get your lover back. Your ex will think twice once he sees what he'll be missing when you separate ways for good. If you have seen Meg Ryan's movie Serious Moonlight, you'll see practical tips about this. The female lead character's efforts to remind her husband of why they fell in love with each other years ago made him drop the divorce papers, leave his mistress, and happily adopt a child to make up for not being able to produce one.
Avoid pathetic offers.
Don't beg to get your lover back. Communication is encouraged, but not to the extent of even stalking the person and making unnecessary scenes in public places. Offering to give everything to an ex to be together again may not be a good compromising idea.
Put yourself together.
Life goes on despite a break up. Some women resort to extreme measures such as a suicide attempt. This may come across as overly romantic for some people, but you have to take note that this is no longer love but an obsession. Love is a two-way process. Obsession, on the other hand, finds a dominant side of yourself and forces another person towards you by all means possible. True, this gets the guy's attention at first - but out of pity and a sense of responsibility. In the end, you may lose your confidence and self-respect. Your relationship, in turn, will be built with lies.
A more beneficial look at this situation is to not let the other party think that your world has fallen apart. Even if you want to get your lover back, it doesn't mean you are hopeless without him. Nobody wants to be with someone who is unable to stand up against life's challenges, like when a good relationship ends. On the other hand, we all look up to those who can rise up amidst issues.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.